Tantra in Berlin-Mitte near Charlottenburg
What actually is Tantra? Practising Tantra in my own studio in Berlin-Mitte not far from Charlottenburg, I´m often asked that question. Many people have already heard something about Tantra and are curious about what happens during a sensual, tender Tantra massage. Unfortunately though, there are also a lot of misunderstandings about Tantra.Therefore, I try to answer this question as comprehensively as possible. Nevertheless, every massage is a very individual experience which leads the receiver in a state of very deep relaxation and is felt differently by everyone.
Questions and answers around Tantra
What is Tantra?
The term Tantra stems from sanscrit and signifies a spiritual path, which has developed from hinduism and buddhism during thousands of years. Body and spirit are considered as unitiy. Different from other spiritual ways, there is no ambition to transcend the body. Instead, the aim is to enlighten it, since it is regarded as the "temple of god". That´s why Tantrists believe in sexual energies as helpful to enhance and accelerate our spiritual development.
This knowledge is taken into account in the Tantra massage, and that leads to mindfulness and respect as central aspects of the massage.
The Tantra massage originates from the tantric tradition and celebrates the body as a temple. All parts of the body, including the genitals, are equally revered and are included in the massage accordingly. The massage puts you in a state of deep relaxation and offers the possibility to be in contact with me and yourself in a way that may be unknown to you.
One of the most important basic ideas of the Tantra massage is the lack of intention. I have no expectations of you and accept you as you are. We get very close to each other, but no "private" relationship develops between us. Since the massages are received naked, they are given naked accordingly. Gender, body weight and appearance play no role in the Tantra massage.
Do I need any previous experience or knowledge?
The Tantra massage is about experiencing your own body, therefore no previous experience is necessary. As an experienced Tantra practitioner I will guide you through the whole ritual. Of course I also respect your personal boundaries.
For the first massage I recommend a duration of 1.5 to 2 hours. You can also prepare yourself for the massage by not coming directly from everyday stress. This way you can focus all your attention on yourself and the experiences you have with your body.
What is the procedure of a Tantra massage?
Each massage is introduced in a relaxed way with a welcome ritual, which allows you to arrive in peace and builds up trust. Here you can tell me your wishes and concerns regarding Tantra over a cup of tea. After the welcome and the detailed preliminary talk the actual massage begins in my studio in Berlin-Mitte near Charlottenburg.
The Tantra massage always follows a fixed ritual sequence. Starting with a gentle hand massage, the whole body is gradually touched, from the toes to the tips of the hair, front (Yin side) and back (Yan side). This holistic massage also includes a yoni or lingam massage (the female and male genitals). The interplay of gentle touches and strong, stimulating massage techniques makes the Tantra massage a sensual experience. So every massage is always a journey to yourself. That is why you have a few moments for yourself after the massage to integrate what you have experienced.
Can I have an orgasm?
Yes, of course. However, having an orgasm or an erection is not crucial, nor is it the goal of a tantric massage, and you´re being touched without intention. The more you concentrate on having an orgasm, the more difficult it can become. The focus is on relaxation and well-being. However, an intensive experience is not uncommon during a tantric ritual. All feelings that show up during the massage are allowed.
How much time should I take?
The Tantra massage itself lasts at least one and a half hours. Since a relaxed arrival with a preliminary talk as well as the follow-up talk and maybe also taking a shower are also important, you should plan an additional half hour.
Are spontaneous Tantra appointments possible?
The main times when I massage in my studio in Berlin-Mitte are Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays. However, appointments can be made on other days by prior arrangement. Appointments can be made either by e-mail, using the contact form or directly by telephone.
Basically, appointments should be planned some time in advance, as I need a at least three hours to come to Berlin – unless I´m already there.
Where do the Tantra massages take place?
I do not offer house and hotel visits, as I prefer to work in my beautifully furnished private studio, which is located in the government district very conveniently near the main train station Berlin Hauptbahnhof and near Charlottenburg.